Sunday, November 28, 2010

Timing is Everything

Timing is essential when dealing with people. You don't ask for a raise when business is not going well or when things are tense around the office. You don't try to correct someone who feels threatened by you. You don't ask for a favor when someone is under a lot of stress or angry.

We got into a debate when we saw a movie was talking about four people who were fighting about things that they want to do.

• Fatima wanted to do a colored Abayas. But people said that black abayas reflect our society and shows respect. She was angry and said that wearing colored abaya doesn't reflect us as bad women in Saudi Arabia.

• Abdul Aziz thinks that why we can't sit with your girl/boyfriend in public spaces. I was against him at the beginning because we are muslims and its something unacceptable in our society, but on the other hand most of the people do sit in public places put that doesn't mean that we can't, on the other hand we are muslims and we do have our believes and everybody dealing with it in his/her way.

Finally I think that Abdul Aziz has to think about it from a different perspective which means is he going to allow to his sister or whatever to sit or hang out with her boyfriend would it be ok with him, or lets say is he going to accept it?



 

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